This song hits home for me. I cry every time it comes on. I couldn’t describe how I feel any better. Day 10 without speaking- still as hard as the first.
I still miss you everyday. I miss you more today because I have so much I want to share with you. New things are happening in my life and I wish I could just tell them to my best friend. I wish you were here, I wish it could be as easy as picking up the phone and having a conversation, but I must wait. I have to wait until we are both in a better place. All I can do is hold on to the hope that I have left for us. I miss you.
Normally, people will advise you to just move on and find someone else after a breakup. But sometimes, you know deep in your heart that the relationship with your ex was something special and it’s definitely worth giving another chance.
How To Get Your Ex Back After a Breakup In 3 Steps
Step 1 – Stopping Contact With Your Ex
Even though ever fiber of your body will want to call your ex and try to convince them to come back, the best course of action right now is to stop contact with your ex. I know it sounds a little counter intuitive but if you think about, it makes more sense than bombarding them with text messages and phone calls. When you don’t contact your ex, you are giving them an opportunity to miss you. You are giving them an opportunity to reflect upon the relationship. If you are…
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Seeing old friends really reminds you of the people who belongs in your life and who really doesn’t. As the new year has started I can really start doing some “cleaning”. This is the last time I will be home for break and the last time I will see the majority of these people I once called my friends. Graduating from college will be the same idea. I am truly excited to see where my life takes me. I am becoming increasingly more sure it will be San Francisco. I am looking forward to having a stable home ( not having to move places every year) and making it my own. I’m looking forward to having a job and pursue my ambitions. Leaving the past behind– where it belongs. Here is to the beginning of this journey. Cheers!
Hey y’all. I’ve decided along with my posts of “How To Lose A Guy In 10 Days” and “How To Feel Pretty In An Ugly World” that I’m going to start a section in my blog for “How To’s”.
Are you tired of being bothered by those pesky thoughts in your head about your ex? Whether you broke up with them or they broke up with you, those thoughts might still be in your head about missing them. Those pesky little thoughts you just can’t get rid of.
Do you lie awake at night creating scenarios in your head about what could have been and what went wrong?
Do you stare at your phone, wishing, hoping with all your might that they’ll text you and instantly things will be perfect again like they once were?
Well, if you answered yes to any of these questions… I might have a few…
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We all go through different phases post breakup. In fact, I myself had so many different personas, I was shocked how I could be one thing in one moment and then another after a few hours. Oh, the mood swings are endless.
So grab a pen and paper and mark which of the following you went through after your heartache.
1. Health Buff
You bring out your running shoes and start working out and burning calories like crazy. Of course, you want to be in your best physical form after being dumped (or not) and make the ex regret leaving you when he/she sees that oh so awesome beach body you got (or at least the new you which is a couple of pounds lighter).
2. Nibbler Like A Mouse
You can hardly eat. It’s not like you’re in the diet of the century but you’re just so devastated everything…
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Really nicely written on breakups
A six sentence email ending relationship is not exactly the new year present one would expect from someone…neither did my friend who was riding the unpleasant roller coaster of a four-year on-again off-again relationship. But so it happened! And for few others. While the world celebrated new years by toasting champagne, eating cakes and dancing through the night, few people wept their way to sleep. It’s terrible that someone who meant so much to you last year, can be a stranger now. It’s amazing what a year can do.
Everyone, at some point in their life, experiences a heartbreak. And I am not going to lie, it is probably the most painful feeling. It feels like the heart has been stomped mercilessly and shattered into a million pieces. It hurts a lot, emotionally and physically. I think one of the worst feeling is finding out that you didn’t mean as much…
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